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Dear Readers, We're Back!

December 19, 2023 by Ikeranda Smith in love, life, personal growth, relationships, self-improvement

After a brief hiatus filled with life's twists and turns, I'm ecstatic to share some exciting news. Starting next year, our weekly blog rendezvous resumes! Brace yourselves for the grand return with THREE new posts on January 1st. 🎉

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December 19, 2023 /Ikeranda Smith
finding peace, love, marriage, black love
love, life, personal growth, relationships, self-improvement

Tulips Bloom When They Want

March 01, 2021 by Ikeranda Smith in black mothers, children, love, parenting, motherhood, relationships

There are moments in life when you have to make a decision that hurts you in places that you can’t seem to articulate. When you reach for the words, you can’t even begin to complete the sentences for fear of running into your own feelings. I understand the amount of work it takes to stay sane. It is dangerous when you leave doors + windows unlocked to a house you never owned keys to. It will leave you vacant in ways that you often wonder who ever granted permission to so many unworthy people.

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March 01, 2021 /Ikeranda Smith
women's rights, women, finding peace
black mothers, children, love, parenting, motherhood, relationships

To Be Black

February 01, 2019 by Ikeranda Smith in black, history, LGBTQIA, life, love, personal growth, queer, relationships, women of color

The weight of my skin wakes me up every single morning. I am jolted by the day begging me to be quieter + less black. I crawl out of bed pulling the hopes of my ancestors from under years of self-degradation praying that my parent’s trauma doesn’t trip me up today. Trusting that my vernacular is articulate enough to get your attention because most days I am injured by the explanations; bruised by the shape-shifting + code switching. Transforming to fit into something worthy of being acceptable + magnificent. Grasping the understanding that we wouldn’t return or recover. Reminded that being glorious is dangerous, especially when you are black. Warriors must walk lightly taking into consideration their gifts as well as their frailties. We hail from things that are fascinating, but up close can be misconstrued as ice sculptures; gorgeous + emotionless.  

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February 01, 2019 /Ikeranda Smith
black woman, black daughters, becoming, black queer and educated, blackmothers, acceptance, african, middle passage, self-love, family, finding peace, life lessons, self love, self worth, self reflection
black, history, LGBTQIA, life, love, personal growth, queer, relationships, women of color
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Finding Peace

November 07, 2018 by Ikeranda Smith in life, personal development, personal growth, queer, womanaremagic, women of color

I’ve been trying to nestle into a new space, find solace in fulfilling work, create the marriage I never saw while raising secure children. Looking for a gentle place where security is a constant, love is mirrored daily + my children can thrive is a delicate balancing act. It’s seems effortless as I ravel off years of rhetoric coupled with theories doused in all the residencies I attended just to be able to apply knowledge to my own life. The mere fact that I can write such a candid narrative is evidence that the scars of my ancestors are being healed.

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November 07, 2018 /Ikeranda Smith
peace, finding peace, solace, self love, self worth, growth, love, queer woman of color
life, personal development, personal growth, queer, womanaremagic, women of color
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